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What is Teej
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Teej is a festival celebrated by Nepali women, for the long
life of her husband and long and firm relationship between them until the death
this life and all the lives to come. Teej is observed for marital happiness,
well-being of spouse and children and purification of own body and soul. Teej
is the most famous festival among Nepali
women.
The folk music and dances add more flavor to traditional
values of Teej. It is fascinating to see women, in “Red” dancing and singing on
the street, going to temple in holy and fasting mood. Teej is also called Hari
Talika Teej. This festival is celebrated by Nepali Hindu women all across the
world.
Teej is a small red insect that comes out of the soil during
the rainy season. It is said Teej got its name from the same red insect. That
is why Teej is celebrated in red.
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When is Teej
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Teej is celebrated on 3rd day of Bhadra Sukala Paksha
(according to Nepali lunar calendar). It generally falls in late August or
early September
Teej is traditionally dedicated to the Goddess Parvati, remembering her union with Lord Shiva. It is
a three-day-long celebration that combines splendid feasts as well as rigid
fasting.
Teej also welcomes and celebrates arrival of monsoon after a
season of summer heat.
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How do we
celebrate Teej
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The Eve (First day of Teej) is called Dar Khane
Din. On this day all the family members especially the women, both married and
unmarried gather at one place, in their finest outfits of red (called
Saubhagya) and start dancing and singing devotional songs mixed with Nepali
folk and Dohori songs.
This evening the grand feast takes place. The grand feast is
called “Dar”. The fun often goes on till midnight, after midnight the 24-hour
fasting starts.
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What is Dar दर
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Women who go in fasting the very next day eat a very big feast...."daro
khana" (दर्हो खाना) that means a heavy food in
Nepali....it is said daro khane became dar. Whatever, the meaning is, they go
for big feast that evening with deserts, mithai, nepali foods like sel, puri,
fruits and non vegitarian foods like mottons and chicken by some communities.
The Second Day
Second day is the main day of Teej (the fasting day). Some
women take it very rigid, they even live without a piece of food and drops of
water while some others take liquid and fruit. On this day, they happily dress
in red, married women wear their lagan ko pote, nathhi, other jewelries and
chadke tilahari ( jewelries are optional but chadke tilahari, laganko pote and
natthi is said to be most important) and visit a nearby Lord Shiva’s temple
singing and dancing all the way.
Most of devotees in Kathmandu go to Pashupatinath Temple. At
the Shiva temple, women worship the Shiva lingam, the symbol of the lord Shiva,
offering flowers, sweets and coins. The main puja (religious ceremony) takes
place with offerings of flowers, fruits, etc., made to Shiva and Pārbati,
pleading them to grant their blessing upon the husband and family. The most
important part of the pooja is mostly done in the evening burning the oil lamp
(108 sute batti in a diyo) which should be burning throughout the night. It is
a tradition of giving the diyo of teej by her mother in law to the married
woman.
Third Day Morning
Women get up early in the dawn and get cleaned and do the
puja once again to the diyo and goddess Parvati. The most important part of
this puja is a banana and holy basil (Tulsi patta) leaf. Only after this puja,
women take solid food. This third day of Teej is Ganesh Chaturthati. Women eat
Karkalo ko Tarkari with chokho (pure) food made with pure ghee.
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Rishi Panchami
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The Fourth Day of the
festival
After the completion of the previous day's pooja, women pay
homage to various deities and bathe with red mud found on the roots of the
sacred Datiwan bush, along with its leaves. This act of purification is the
final ritual of Teej, after which women are considered forgiven from all their
sins. The recent years have witnessed an adjustment in the rituals, especially
regarding the strictness, but its spirit remains the same.
The actual date of inception of Teej is not known. However,
it is celebrated by the women of Nepal and some part of India with lots of joy
and enthusiasm. Most married women rich or poor observe this festival with fun.
Eating delicious food, popularly called dar, on the eve of
Teej, and singing and dancing on the main day are the main features of this
festival. On this particular day, the streets of Kathmandu turn into a sea of
red with women dressed in red Sarees and Dhoties making their way to Shiva
shrines, especially to the Pashupatinath Temple.
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Celebration
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On Teej, the devotees do not eat and drink the whole day.
They first offer worship to Lord Shiva and spend the rest of the day singing
and dancing in the temple premises. Singing Teej songs like "Teej ko rahar
aayo bari lai". Indeed, women are seen mostly in holy sites on this day.
Men are not allowed to enter the most of Shiva Temples on this day.
Outside Kathmandu valley too, women gather in public places
like roads and markets and enjoy the festival by singing and dancing.
Though the women fast throughout the day - refusing to take
even a drop of water - Teej brings smiles on the faces of women in the cities
and villages.
It is a rare opportunity for many married women in Nepali
village to go to their mother’s home due to busy schedules in village farm
works. The parents invite their daughters or send someone to bring their
daughters to their home a day or two before the festival. There they contribute
of the ritual food called dar before going on a fast on Teej. Interestingly, no
daughter goes to her mother’s place during this festival unless they get an
invitation from her parents or brothers. In case they do not get an invitation
from their parents, they feel extremely sad - they say it is the saddest moment
in their life.
The timing of the festival is practical in a rural society
like ours as it falls immediately after the farm work is over. This festival
takes place after the farmers finish weeding their paddy fields.
Hindu women across the country celebrate this festival with
much fun, the food they eat in the form of "dar" varies from place to
place. In hills of eastern Nepal they take porridge, sel roti and mutton in the
form of dar whereas in western Nepal, they eat rice cooked in ghee which they
call latte. In the city, pulau, sweets, mutton, fish make the main menu of dar.
These days it is becoming expensive to celebrate Teej as the
people seem to be competing in inviting relatives and friends for the dar
eating and spending more for other ritual practices.
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